Saturday, July 24, 2010

Simple and real friend

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself and
doesn't feel even the least bit weird shutting your 'Pepsi drawer'
with her foot!

A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend shoulder is soggy from your tears..

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first Names.
A real friend has their phone numbers In his address book.

A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your Party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and Stays late to help you clean.

A simple friend hates it when you call after They've gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to Call.

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your Problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend wonders about your romantic History.
A real friend could blackmail you with it!

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when You have an argument.
A real friend calls you after you had a fight.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for Them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!

A simple friend reads this e-mail and deletes it..
A real friend passes it on and sends it back to you!

Never frown, even when you are sad,
Because you never know who is Falling in love with your smile

Saturday, July 3, 2010

how do you deal with an introvert

Do you know someone who needs hours alone every day? Who loves quiet conversations about feelings or ideas, and can give a dynamite presentation to a big audience, but seems awkward in groups and maladroit at small talk? Who has to be dragged to parties,conferences and then needs the rest of the day to recuperate? Who growls or scowls or grunts or winces when accosted with pleasantries by people who are just trying to be nice?
If so, do you tell this person he is "too serious," or ask if he is okay? Regard him as aloof, arrogant, rude? Redouble your efforts to draw him out?
If you answered yes to these questions, chances are that you have an introvert on your hands—and that you aren't caring for him properly. Science has learned a good deal in recent years about the habits and requirements of introverts. It has even learned, by means of brain scans, that introverts process information differently from other people (I am not making this up). If you are behind the curve on this important matter, be reassured that you are not alone. Introverts may be common, but they are also among the most misunderstood and aggrieved.... for more plz make short comment...