Wednesday, June 16, 2010

When love fades away

If you want to be fully successful it's important to know how to choose the right partner to marry.
You must be aware of one thing: "relationships or marriages that has been built on any other thing that is not a common vision of life or a shared vision of life won't last or will be tasteless and you will get tired of it very soon". It goes beyond love only. Love has intensity but a shared vision has duration . If you want to enjoy the relationship and save many problems, like infidelity,boredom, unfaithfulness it's necessary to have it present.
There has been many cases you've heard of in which the husband leaves his wife when he gets more money ,better businesses and replaces her for a younger and prettier woman. What went wrong? It wouldn't have happened if she had shared with him a common vision about their lives. He ever wanted to be successful, but when young needed a woman by his side too. He ever knew she wasn't the indicated, who could understood him fully, but he didn't want to remain alone the rest of his life.
What attracted her to him was his incipient success probably cash, she ever knew it but never went far beyond to understand his lonely soul. Disloyalty starts then. As there's no spark between them, they want to find seasonal affairs.
So far you can't deny it: it's important to share a vision when you get married. If your husband is an entrepreneur businessman never fight against their beliefs like many people could do. If you don't understand him fully, my advice is "search for common guy".
Many relationships are successful because they both share a common vision. No matter if it's not an "ambitious" vision, what matters is aiming for the same things in life. Living the rest of your days with a person who goes through the same experiences is just priceless. for more make a comment plz

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